“Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” Psalm 90:12 NIV.
That’s good advice, especially these days when so many people are distracted by their tech devices and busy lives, and fail to realize that life is passing them by.
This year turned out very differently than I had originally planned. As some of you know, shortly after Christmas, my husband and I invited my mother to live with us. She came in April, and our home became hers until her passing in November.
I had planned to continue writing as usual, but I also wanted to spend time with Mom, having tea or playing a game of dice or watching her favorite game shows. We enjoyed all of the aforementioned activities, and when I look back, I do not regret any of the time spent with her. However, it was not always an easy decision for me, because writing waited, and games are not my favorite thing.
We writers love to be alone with words and ideas and characters, but sometimes God has other plans for us. When I realize how quickly time has flown, how short my time with Mom turned out to be, I’m so glad I chose to be present in her world. Because I won’t have another chance for that.
As David says in Psalm 103:15, “As for man, his days are life grass, he flourishes like a flower of the field; the wind blows over it and it is gone and its place remembers it no more.” Or, to quote the lyrics of an old song, “Yesterday’s gone and tomorrow may never come, but we have this moment today.”
We each have decisions to make about how we spend our time. I pray for discernment as we review the past year and look forward to what God has for us in the future. In the meanwhile, let’s celebrate the mystery and miracle of Christmas, and be present in the lives of those we love. And happy writing too!
Nicely said, Jan. Talk to you soon, love Dee
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Thanks, Dee. I seem to be in a prolonged meditative mood. Time for a new year and a new plan.
We honor your choices.
That’s the kind of support I’m talking about! People have been so good to us.
Well said, and you’ll never regret this time with your mom. You’d have regretted not spending it with her, though. Praying there will be a new and productive writing season in the new year!
Thanks, Janet. As I replied to Sharon, I do have to broaden my focus in the new year.
Your blog speaks to my heart too, Janice. Thanks for reminding us to savour the present time and to spend time with people who matter. This verse from the Psalm is so important. May we learn it well.
Thanks, Sharon. And I really have to change up my focus for the new year! Seems all thoughts lead to Mom one way or another.
Thank you Janice for such a beautiful reflection! Your mother was such a special person! Much love Marjorie
My mom was very fond or you too, Marjorie. So glad you met. Also appreciate your excellent updates. Blessings to you and Russ at this special Christmas season.